Of course you can love someone without spending the future with them…and you don’t need permission to do so!
However, a key thing is to avoid wistfully wishing that you could be with that person if that is not to be. Accept what fate has given you, and maybe seek out others to love, too. Love is a renewable resource.
Sure, it is ok to love someone knowing that you will never be with them. However, be careful that this love doesn’t morph into an emotional block which prevents you from finding and loving someone who you can be with.
Loving someone who cannot love you the same way in return is not a weakness. It’s one of the most courageous things you’ll ever do.
If the one you love doesn’t love you back the same way, it is like you are putting your armour at their feet and saying “I will not fight you in this. I have loved you and that means that I have already won.”
Yes it’s completely okay to love someone knowing that they won’t be with you in future!!!
HAVE NO EXPECTATIONS!!!
This is the root cause which can hurt you pretty bad. The more you expect, the more you remain attached to the person and this will make things hard and worse for you. Love her but don’t expect her to love you back, this will leave nothing but disappointment and make it worse.
So don’t expect anything from her and just do things, because you just wanna love her and want her to be happy.
Small piece of advice.
If you think it’s not possible to forget about her because she’s the one you love and you just can’t really get over her…trust me it’s all in your head. Time is being wasted. She’s standing like a door between you and the women who’s right for you. Get over and things shall happen.
You deserve someone better.